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Prepare To Meet Your Maker(s)

“We are your biggest fans, Shelby.” “We’ll always love you.” “You’ll always be our little girl.” “Shel, if you’re happy, we’re happy.”

The Time I Had…“The Talk!”

The Talk! Everyone’s heard about it whether it be through word of mouth or through real experience. Everyone’s experience with it was and will be different depending on the person and their parents. I like to think that my experience was the craziest of them all but I’m sure it has happened to others before me.

Keeping the Friend/Relationship Balance

After what seems like forever, you’ve finally caught yourself a good one—a boyfriend/girlfriend who’s absolutely awesome. You just can’t get enough of this person, and they feel the same way about you. So you become attached at the hip, and start doing everything together. There’s just one little problem: your friends are acting super cold and distant. Why? Because you’re not keeping the friend/relationship balance. Classic mistake, but worry not, you can certainly correct it.  Here’s how:

Dating a Friend’s Ex: Your Play by Play

 

It would be great if there were an unlimited supply of eligible singles at your school.  But the reality is, social circles aren’t that big, and the potential for dating overlap is huge.  So what do you do if you find yourself falling for a friend’s ex?  Before your do anything, consider the following:

 
Does it matter what your friends think about your girlfriend/boyfriend?
No—as long as I like them, that's all that matters.
68%
Yes—friends often see the things that I might miss when I'm in the haze of a serious crush.
32%

 

What to talk about it on a first date, how do to wear your hair for yearbook pictures, to pierce or not to pierce, which dress to wear to prom—these are all things we want our friends advice on…and we take that advice seriously.  But what about when it comes to something as personal as choosing who to date?  Are we right to consult our friends or are they likely to be over protective? 

Assuming we have good friends, they generally want the best for us.  Sometimes they see the warning signs, witness the quick tempers, or hear the snide comments that we’re quick to ignore in the early stages of a relationship.  Friends can also be quick to judge bf/gf’s in an effort to protect us or because they’re jealous.  Either way, it’s usually a good idea to hear them out before running to the tattoo shop to have your crush’s name stamped on your arm.

Do you consult your friends before jumping into a relationship?  Is there advice valuable to you?  Let us know in the comments.  

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The Friday Five: Going from Friend to Boyfriend/Girlfriend

It’s an age-old dilemma: are your friends on or off limits for dating? On the one hand, you don’t want to ruin the friendship. But on the other, some of the best relationships come out of two people who were friends first. If you and a friend have discovered you have feelings for each other, here’s how to make the transition while protecting both your friendship and each other.

Is Your Friend In An Unhealthy Relationship?

Did you know that 1 in 5 teens admit that their friends are in unhealthy relationships? That’s a pretty scary stat, although I guess the bright side is that teens are savvy enough to spot an unhealthy relationship when they see one. Sometimes the signs are obvious—a friend’s boyfriend or girlfriend makes fun of them in public, isolates them from their friends and family, or even physically abuses them. But other times, it can be difficult to tell whether your friend is really in an unhealthy situation, or you just don’t like the person they’re with.

Friday Five: 5 Things to Do Before Becoming FBO (Face Book Official)

Thinking about making your relationship FBO?  These are the 5 things you have to do before changing your relationship status:

When Your Best Friend Wants to Date Your Boy

You and your BFF share everything from clothes to chemistry notes, but one thing has always been off limits—your crush. Until now, that is. It seems that the guy you’ve had your eye on for months likes her—and she likes him back! Even worse, she wants to date him, and she wants you to be OK with it.

 
Can guys and girls be “just” friends?
Yes – assuming romance has to come into play is ridiculous
50%
No – someone is always going to want to hook up
8%
Maybe – every now and then it works, but more often than not someone’s got a hidden agenda
42%

We would argue that friendships—be they same-sex or opposite—are complicated no matter what. Over the years we’ve all had to learn how to handle how not to date/ approach/ come on to a guy/girl my best friend likes/ liked/ dated/ wanted to date/ saw first on the first day of pre-calc/ etc. So does attraction—however vague the possibility of anything happening may be—really confuse things that much?

Tell us in the comments—do you have friends of the opposite sex? Is it ever hard to maintain the friendship without slipping into hook-up territory? Are there advantages to friends of the opposite sex that same-sex friendships don’t have?

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