ROLE MODELS
Teen guys and girls are divided on who serves as their relationship role
models. Teen girls (35%) are more likely to say that their parents serve
as an example of a healthy relationship than other family members,
friends, faith leaders, or other adults. Guys, however, are most likely to say that their friends are role models of good relationships.
WHAT ARE TEENS SAYING?
"I look at my parents. Mine are still together and I'm living proof of
that. You always have to be able to work it out."
- Male, Miami focus group
"What you do now will affect the future. Now I compare my
relationship to the relationship of my parents."
- Female, Washington DC focus group
FACTS AND TIPS
- FAST FACT : Most teens aged 15-17 say they enjoy spending time with their
mother (79%) and father (76%).
- QUICK TIP : Do you think highly of your parents? Do you enjoy spending
time with them? You're not alone. Research shows that most teens
describe the relationship they have with their mothers and fathers as
positive -- they admire their parents, enjoy spending time with them,
and want to be like them. If you feel this way about your parents,
consider letting them know.
- A TIP FOR YOUR PARENTS: Remember that your actions speak as loud as your words.
What you do has just as much impact on your teens' behavior as the rules
you set down for them. If you show them what a healthy, responsible
relationship looks like they are more likely to emulate your example.