THE GOOD NEWS? Most teens (84% of guys and 85% of girls) say they
have never felt pressure to be in a romantic relationship before they were ready.
Teens often recognize when their friends and loved ones are in
unhealthy relationships. Sometimes it takes outside perspective for
people to realize what they are going through.
When asked what
advice teens would give a friend in an unhealthy relationship they
respond with direct guidance:
“Think about yourself. Don’t be scared. Do something about it now… You can do better, and it doesn’t hurt to find someone else.”
– Female, San Antonio focus group
“People in unhealthy relationships should know that they can get out of them, and it isn’t their fault that the relationship didn’t work.”
– Web Survey Response
QUICK TIP : You’re in charge of your own life. Don’t let anyone pressure
you into being in a relationship until you are absolutely sure that
you’re ready. And remember, the same rules apply even if you are
already in a relationship. Just because you’ve said “yes” before doesn’t
mean you can’t say “no” now. You are the decider. Remember too that
romantic relationships with someone older—even just three years
older—can be risky.
FAST FAST : Teens who are in relationships with someone who is three years
older are far more likely to say that sex was unwanted.